Distress tolerance
The ability to endure intense emotional pain without acting in ways that make the situation worse. A core skill set in DBT.
Category: Concepts and skills
What is distress tolerance?
Distress tolerance is for moments when the emotion cannot be fixed right now and the goal is to get through without harm: no impulsive messages, self-harm, or substance use.
Key things to know
DBT teaches concrete crisis skills, including intense cold or exercise to shift body state, paced breathing, and structured distraction, used deliberately and temporarily.
- For moments when the emotion cannot be fixed and the goal is no added damage.
- DBT crisis skills: intense cold, hard exercise, paced breathing, structured distraction.
- These are deliberate, temporary tools, not a lifestyle of suppression.
- Surviving the peak without impulsive action is the whole win.
- Longer-term work addresses what drives the crises.
What helps
These are survival skills for peaks of emotion, not a lifestyle of suppression. Longer-term work addresses what drives the crises.
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This entry is educational information, not medical advice, a diagnosis, or a treatment plan. For assessment and treatment, consult a qualified mental health professional. If you are in crisis, see our crisis resources. In India, Tele-MANAS is free at 14416, 24x7.