Emotional dysregulation

Difficulty managing the intensity and duration of emotional responses. Emotions escalate quickly, feel overwhelming, and take a long time to settle.

Category: Symptoms and experiences

What is emotional dysregulation?

Emotional dysregulation means reactions that are stronger and longer-lasting than the situation calls for, and difficulty returning to baseline. It often includes rapid mood shifts and impulsive behaviour under emotion.

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Key things to know

It appears across many conditions, including ADHD, C-PTSD, and borderline personality disorder, and can also result from chronic stress or a childhood where emotions were punished or ignored.

  • Emotions rise fast, feel overwhelming, and settle slowly.
  • It appears in ADHD, C-PTSD, and borderline personality disorder, among others.
  • It can also be learned in homes where emotions were punished or ignored.
  • Regulation is a skill set, not a personality fixture.
  • DBT teaches concrete, well-evidenced regulation skills.

What helps

Emotion-regulation skills can be learned. Dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) was built specifically for this and teaches concrete skills for tolerating and modulating intense emotion.

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