Boundaries
Limits that define what you will and will not accept in relationships and commitments, protecting your time, energy, and wellbeing.
Category: Concepts and skills
What is boundaries?
A boundary is a statement about your own behaviour: what you will do if a limit is crossed. It is not controlling others; it is deciding what you participate in.
Key things to know
Weak boundaries look like chronic overcommitment, resentment, difficulty saying no, and taking responsibility for other people's emotions. Guilt when first setting boundaries is normal and fades with practice.
- A boundary states what you will do, not what others must do.
- Weak boundaries look like overcommitment, resentment, and reflexive yes.
- Guilt when first setting boundaries is normal and fades with practice.
- Clear limits usually improve relationships rather than damaging them.
- Boundaries are a core tool against burnout.
What helps
Boundaries are a core part of managing burnout and maintaining relationships. Clear, stated limits generally improve relationships rather than harming them.
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