Loneliness
The distress felt when social connection is less than what you need. It is subjective: you can be lonely in a crowd or content alone.
Category: Symptoms and experiences
What is loneliness?
Loneliness is about perceived quality of connection, not headcount. Chronic loneliness is linked to higher rates of depression, anxiety, and physical health problems.
Key things to know
Loneliness tends to be self-reinforcing: it increases threat sensitivity in social situations, which makes reaching out harder.
- Loneliness is about perceived connection quality, not how many people are around.
- Chronic loneliness raises risks for depression, anxiety, and physical illness.
- It increases social threat-sensitivity, which makes reaching out harder.
- The best interventions target thinking about social contact, not just adding events.
- Small, repeated, low-stakes contact is the practical starting point.
What helps
Interventions that work best target the thinking patterns around social contact, not just adding activities. Small, repeated, low-stakes contact is a practical starting point.
How SelfMind can help
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Try a quiz
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This entry is educational information, not medical advice, a diagnosis, or a treatment plan. For assessment and treatment, consult a qualified mental health professional. If you are in crisis, see our crisis resources. In India, Tele-MANAS is free at 14416, 24x7.