Self-harm

Hurting yourself on purpose, often as a way to cope with emotional pain. It's a sign of serious distress and a reason to reach out for support.

Category: Symptoms and experiences

What is self-harm?

Self-harm can mean cutting, burning, hitting, or scratching yourself, or taking too much of a medicine. For many people, it's a way to get through feelings that seem unbearable. For others, it's a way to feel something when they feel numb. It's usually not about attention. If you self-harm, it doesn't make you weak or bad.

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Key things to know

It brings short-term relief, which is why it can turn into a pattern. Over time, it raises the risk of serious injury and of suicide. Not everyone who self-harms wants to die. Every case still deserves to be taken seriously.

  • It's usually a way to cope with pain, not a bid for attention.
  • The relief is short, and the pattern can get stronger.
  • It raises the long-term risk of suicide, so take it seriously.
  • DBT teaches other ways to get through intense emotions.
  • Tele-MANAS 14416 is free and open 24x7 in India.

What helps

Help is out there. You deserve it. DBT and other therapies teach safer ways to handle intense emotions, and a safety plan can help in hard moments. If you're in danger right now, call 112. In India, Tele-MANAS is free and available 24x7 at 14416.

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This entry is educational information, not medical advice, a diagnosis, or a treatment plan. For assessment and treatment, consult a qualified mental health professional. If you are in crisis, see our crisis resources. In India, Tele-MANAS is free at 14416, 24x7.